Out of State, Out of Mind: Attending an Out of State College

When it comes to college, there are new adjustments, new freedoms, new people, and (most of all) new growth.

Here are a few things to expect if you decide to travel halfway across the country to attend college.

1. Homesickness Happens

Being away affected me more than I thought, and it was a tough realization.

2. Learn how to make car rides fun.

Not having a car can make things difficult, especially trying to get home. Establishing relationships with people is a big deal.

3. It’s okay to not know what you’re doing

When people choose to go out of state, there is a stigma that they will be fine right off the bat and that they won’t struggle adjusting because they made that choice and knew what they were getting into.

4. You don’t have to stick with the same people you meet the very first week

Being away from home and in a new place, it can be scary trying to make friends. It’s easy to latch onto the first people you meet because you want some sort of stability. In most cases, this doesn’t work out or isn’t healthy and it can be scary to let it go.

5. Culture shock is a hot topic of conversation

Everyone is shocked about different peoples’ vernacular, accents, and lifestyles. You can tell people almost anything and they will be shocked about it.

Being a long way from home is difficult, but there are many ways to help get through the change. Don’t be intimidated by the feelings you didn’t think you would have. Put yourself out there to make friends and connections.

Embrace the change that comes with college and take it day-by-day, but remember it is okay to miss home.

Be Well, Auburn.